Don't include utils/array.h from acl.h.

Don't include utils/array.h from acl.h.

For most uses of acl.h the details of how "Acl" internally looks like
are irrelevant. It might make sense to move a lot of the
implementation details into a separate header at a later point.

The main motivation of this change is to avoid including fmgr.h (via
array.h, which needs it for exposed structs) in a lot of files that
otherwise don't need it. A subsequent commit will remove the fmgr.h
include from a lot of files.

Directly include utils/array.h and utils/expandeddatum.h from the
files that need them, but previously included them indirectly, via
acl.h.

Author: Andres Freund
Discussion: http://postgr.es/m/20190803193733.g3l3x3o42uv4qj7l@alap3.anarazel.de